Mama Needs a Minute

I’m linking up again this week for the Five  Minute Friday 5-minute writing prompt. This week’s prompt is HELP.

Start.

Our son was 16 months old before I told my husband that I needed a minute. It felt like I’d caved, asking him for a few quite, solitary moments on a sunny Sunday afternoon. He stared at me with a confused expression.

“But, you don’t want to spend time with us?”

No, that’s not it at all. I DID very much want to spend time with my boys, but mama needed a time out!  I sent them outside to play and for thirty glorious minutes (aside from running downstairs to toss in a load of laundry), I sat on the couch with a cup of coffee and a Reese’s peanut butter egg.

Later that evening, once the baby was asleep and dinner was cleaned up, my husband said nonchalantly, “So it seems like that time alone was really good for you.” I had felt how helpful a sliver of white space in my day had been, to my fatigued mama body and to my weary mama soul. But I was completely surprised that the impact of those chocolatey minutes could also be felt by him. So in the weeks since, I have made an effort to steal away a few minutes here and there, because tending to myself sends ripples of refreshment throughout our home.

Stop.

A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands. Proverbs 14:1

3 Comments

  1. Returning the drop in from FMF.

    Yes! Sometimes we all just need a pause button, we don’t want to stop or get off the world, we just need to take some time to breath and just be and the couch is the perfect place.

  2. I definitely identify with this! I have learned (the hard way) that time spent investing into ourselves is multiplied exponentially in terms of our energy and patience with those we love… love it!

  3. I love it! Great job! I’m visiting from FMF today. Thanks for sharing!

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